{"id":81,"date":"2021-06-01T14:42:37","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T14:42:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/?p=81"},"modified":"2024-08-02T13:32:38","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T13:32:38","slug":"post-date-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fargate.dev.rebbetzins.org\/resources\/post-date-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Post-Date Tips (Questions to Ask Yourself)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>We gathered some of the best tips out there for everyone mulling over a recent date. Take a look, and see what speaks to you. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>After a bad date, make sure to separate the person you\u2019re dating from the date itself. Could it be you were too cold\/tired\/uncomfortable (or any other external factor) that made it a bad date, and it had nothing to do with the person you dated?&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Best advice I got! When I was dating someone a few times there was nothing wrong but my gut told me it was not going anywhere. A cousin of mine told me &#8220;Yeah,everyone says keep to go out because he&#8217;ll grow on you but\u2026.. mold also grows on bread.&#8221;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>For the beginning of a relationship, the main question to ask yourself  is \u201cDo you like him\/her?\u201d Other decisions come later.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>After each date, take time to reflect on how it went and compare it to what you are looking for.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>If time goes by quickly during the date, it\u2019s a good sign. If you had a good time, it\u2019s also a good sign.<br>If doubting, think: Would I feel comfortable walking together with them in the street? Would I want them to be a parent to my children? Are they someone I look up to? A role model? 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